Walking along the Élővíz Canal

20170914_144756.jpgThe Élővíz Canal is a beautiful canal right across the street from where I am living this year. It runs through Békéscsaba, with tons of trees and greenery along its banks. Every morning I walk (or bike) alongside it on my way to the school or the day center, watching each day as the trees begin to turn colors and leaves begin to fall. Many of the trees along the portion of the canal where I am living are chestnut trees, so in addition to the fallen leaves there are also plenty of fallen chestnuts. Sometimes I see people walking the path and gathering up some of the fallen chestnuts to take home with them.

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Élővíz means living water and it has certainly given this town life over the years. The canal was originally dug between 1772 and 1777 by volunteers in return for being exempt from annual forced labor. It successfully connected the city of Békéscsaba to the water system of the Körös River. Originally, the Élővíz Canal was used for shipping grains and other materials, but today, as my mentor puts it, it is just for the ducks. There are certainly a fair share of ducks. The other day I saw a family standing on the bridge throwing food down to feed the ducks. It reminded me of my own childhood, taking a piece of bread (or two) down to the Snake River in Idaho Falls to feed the ducks on the greenbelt. It’s amazing how little things like feeding the ducks cross cultures from Idaho to Hungary.

Though don’t get me wrong, non-ducks can enjoy the Élővíz Canal too. I periodically see people set up with their lawn chairs and fishing rods on the banks. Who knew you could catch fish in a canal? Not me, but then I know very little about fish or fishing in general. I personally haven’t fished (or fed the ducks). I have, however, found the benches along the canal to be an enjoyable place to sit and read.

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The stretch of the canal right across from where I live also features a series of busts depicting famous Hungarians with ties to the city in what is known as the promenade of sculptures. The busts were sculpted and installed in the 1970s. They are of the politician, András Áchim L., the organic chemist, András Lipták, the historian and Lutheran pastor, Lajos Haán, the poet, Géza Gyóni, the author, Zsigmond Móricz, the painter, Mihály Munkácsy, the poet, Attila József, the composer, Béla Bartók, and the composer, Zoltán Kodály.

This beautiful canal reminds me every day to trust in the simple combinations in this world that are also wonders. This canal combines engineering and nature and art and history so easily and elegantly. It gives me pause to think and wonder and trust. And on that note, I will leave with a quote from Letters to a Young Poet by Ranier Maria Reinke (the book I was reading by said canal).

“If you trust in Nature, in what is simple in Nature, in the small Things that hardly anyone sees and that can so suddenly become huge, immeasurable; if you have this love for what is humble and try very simply, as someone who serves, to win the confidence of what seems poor; then everything will become easier for you, more coherent and somehow more reconciling.”

 

Planning. And re-planning.

My plannerI make plans. And then make more plans. And when those plans don’t work out, I make more plans. I am a planner. In fact one of the first purchases I made after arriving at my site in Békéscsaba was a planner (the kind where you have to fill in the dates week by week, because the only other planners they had at the store I went to were for 2018). I like to write things down. I like to plan. If I don’t write things down, I worry that I will forget about something. (Yes, I have in the past actually forgotten things I didn’t write down.)

Just because I am a planner, does not mean that I am not okay with plans changing. Just because I write plans down in pen, doesn’t mean they are set in stone. If I am going to write in pen, I have to be okay with crossing out what I have written and writing a new plan in its place. Plans are places to start, jumping off points. They’re not places to end.

So far, my site placement has consisted of a lot of shifting plans. A lot of me going to the flow. I was so excited about getting to Békéscsaba and finally getting to unpack my bags after a month of living out of suitcases during orientation, moving four different times. It would be nice to finally unpack my bags and find places for my things in my new home for this year. Yet, here we are a week and a half later and I have still not unpacked my bags. They sit across from me on the extra bed in the dorm room where I’m staying with clothes and other knick-knacks exploding out of them. Nothing has been put away. Nothing has a place yet. That is because this door room that I am currently living in will not be my permanent accommodation. My permanent accommodation, a small flat/ house in the yard behind the art school, is not yet ready for me to live in. Last week, I was told that it would hopefully be ready by the end of the week. This week, I was told that it would hopefully be ready by the end of the week. Now, we are hoping for next week. I will certainly glad when the new place is ready, but until then I will be continuing to just go with the flow and enjoy life in this dorm room of mine. (I will however be very happy to have a washing machine and not have to wash all my clothes in the sink.)

These constantly changing plans aren’t just limited to where I am living. They are coming up in all sorts of places. I had planned to open a bank account on Wednesday, but after plenty of waiting and getting half-way through the application process there was a technical glitch in their system and we couldn’t complete the process. So, back again we went a couple days later to try again (this time successfully). Figuring out what my work schedule will look like has also been a lot of back and forth with a lot of different people, asking about different options and different schedules. I am only just now getting an idea of what my schedule might look like and it very much is subject to change as I actually try it and see what works and what doesn’t.

I suspect this isn’t the end of shifting plans for me this year. That doesn’t mean I will stop planning. You can bet my planner will be full of lists and plans. But, I plan with the knowledge that those plans might change, that I might have to cross out what I write in my planner. Going with the flow is not a bad thing. In fact, it can be a very good thing. Going with the flow is often how we end up in new, exciting and completely unexpected places.

Parting ways

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YAGM Central Europe eating our first lunch of in-country orientation together at the Betlehem Evangelikus Pihenház, the retreat center where we spent our first two weeks.

After four weeks of living life with my wonderful Central Europe cohort, we have finally gone our separate ways.

Four weeks ago, we were strangers. Now we have grown to know and to love each other. It’s been four weeks of sharing rooms and living out of suitcases. Four weeks of stumbling through our extremely limited Hungarian and navigating around new landscapes and cities. Four weeks of ice cream runs, midday walks and late night talks. Four weeks of card games and random songs.

Together we have already grown so much. We’ve started having those tough conversations around topics such as systematic racism, privilege, discrimination and oppression, as well as what it means to be in relationship with each other. We’ve worshipped together and prayed together. We’ve listened to sermons entirely in Hungarian, not understanding any of what was being said. We’ve sat around a campfire together in Bodrogkeresztur singing songs and enjoying each other’s company. We’ve laughed together and cried together.

And this is still just the beginning. Despite the fact that we will no longer be spending every minute of every day together, we will be continuing to grow as a group and in relation to each other as individuals. We may be spread across Hungary and Serbia in Budapest and Pilis, Pécs and Szeged, in Békéscsaba and Szarvas, Nyírtelek and Nyíregyháza, Kötcse, Berettyóújfalu and Novi Sad, but we are all still one team. (Go Team!)

May we each be filled with joy and grace this year. May we find new places and faces to call home. May we learn and grow. May we lean on each other through the struggles and challenges. May we enter each day with open hearts and open minds.

If I know one thing for sure right now, it is that I will miss these wonderful humans.

Thanks for everything. Here is to many more great memories together in the future. See you all in October.

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Our cohort right before our final sending service, after which we all went our separate ways to join our various host communities throughout Hungary and Serbia.

Beauty in poverty

Bódvalenke isn’t just any small Roma village trying to make it through poverty and oppression. It is a village that has used beauty and paint to reclaim the stories and pride of the Roma people in Hungary and around the world. As you walk through the village, you are greeted with wall after wall of murals. Of the fifty or so homes in the village, almost thirty of them are painted with a mural. The freskófalu projektiroda (fresco village project) was started by Eszter Pásztor with three goals in mind. The first was to reclaim the dignity of the Roma people by reclaiming their own stories and experiences as a point of pride. The second was to generate awareness around the Roma people and the Roma stories, creating conversation and working to counteract the prejudice, discrimination and oppression the Roma face. The third was to generate income for the people in Bódvalenke and remove the village from extreme poverty through tourism and business investments. Unfortunately, the village was never able to get the initial funding necessary to establish the infrastructure needed in order to make the tourism and business investments a reality. Yet, the project has still produced some absolutely stunning works of art.

The project invites Roma artists from around Hungary, Central Europe and the world to come to the village and paint large murals covering an entire outer wall of a home in Bódvalenke. Each mural has it’s own story and own importance to the Roma people. Funding to keep painting has since run out, and with no one ready to take over the project from Eszter, there seems little hope that the project will continue into the future. Already some of the murals are missing pieces where the wall has crumbled beneath the paint. Despite the pride the people of Bódvalenke take in their village and their best efforts they are too poverty stricken to fight its ultimate decline. For many, their only hope will be to move elsewhere in the coming years. Yet, they were all kind and welcoming, showing us around and welcoming us into their homes. We can still listen and share the stories the paint tells. I will share a couple of these stories with you.

Creation StoryThis first mural depicts a traditional Roma creation myth. It tells of a giant who stole the sun and the moon and gave them to a terrible dragon. Two brothers then take it upon themselves to steal back the sun and the moon from the dragon. They play music until the dragon falls asleep. One brother then takes the moon and the other the sun and they begin the journey back to their village. On the way back, the moon paled the skin of the brother who carried the moon and the sun burned the skin of the brother who carried the sun. All white people, with their light skin, are the descendants of the brother who carried the moon and all Roma people, with their dark skin, are the descendants of the brother who carried the sun.

Photo 2017. 09. 02. 12 22 38This next mural, entitled “Flying Angels” depicts the journey of Roma people as travelers. They were always wanderers going from place to place as flying angels. They left their home lands, moving across continents and oceans in hopes of finding refuge and a better life. As Eszter pointed out, even the tree tears at its roots to move in the flight. They were encouraged to go. But, instead of being met with kindness and welcome, they were met with hate and suspicion and fear. They were told to keep going or to turn back. And after arriving in a new place they were soon going back to the lands they had always called home. Thus, you see the returning movement in the painting. They returned, but were not welcomed back. They were lost with no sense of place or belonging. This painting is asking the question that so many Roma ask themselves: “Do we have a home?” The faces in this mural are all distorted, because, in Eszter’s words, “when you are afraid or when you intimidate others, then you lose everything worth living for. You lose love and trust and confidence and all the good things, and all that remains is envy and suspicion and fear of the other. And that distorts us; both those who fear and those who make you fear.” Even though this picture was painted to share the plight of the Roma people specifically, Eszter also extended it to encompass the journeys of all refugees.

2muralThe last mural, I am going to share here today is not a story specific to the Roma people. But, instead, it is the story of a breakup. The conversation. The pain. The longing. The sadness. The acceptance. The Roma people are still people and many of their stories are simply the stories of being human. This beautiful piece tells just one such story.

Sziasztok!

Hello from Hungary!

After an intense week of state-side orientation in Chicago, meeting fellow YAGMs, going over logistics and beginning the conversations about power, privilege, race, culture and more that will continue throughout this year, my Central Europe country group and I have finally arrived in Hungary for our in-country orientation. We will be spending our first two weeks in Bodrogkeresztúr at a Lutheran retreat center. We will then spend a week in Budapest and head out to our site placements after that (so Békéscsaba for me).

The Lutheran retreat center we are staying at in Bodrogkeresztúr.

Betlehem Evangelikus Pihenház, the retreat center where we are staying.

It is hard to believe that today is only our fifth full day in country. We’ve been so busy, it feels like we’ve been here much longer. Sometimes it seems surreal that I am back in Hungary once again. I don’t recall much of the little Hungarian I learned during my semester studying abroad in Budapest, but the chitter of the Hungarian language around me still seems familiar. The landscape in and around Bodrogkeresztúr is not quite as familiar, but it is new and no less beautiful than the areas of Hungary I’ve already seen.

We had the opportunity to go on a walk through a nearby town and up to the Áldó Krisztus. The last part of the walk was a time to walk in silence and just notice the world around us. The dirt smeared on the path. The chatter of bugs in the bushes. The cracks in the rock. The flowers growing along the path. The red rooftops of the city down below. Our world is filled with so many small things that go unnoticed by those of us who are too busy staring at screens or rushing place to place. Taking time to notice little things in the world around us can be both powerful and rejuvenating.

A view from our morning walk.

One of my goals this year is to take this practice of noticing and use it to recognize the importance of the little things alongside the big things.

Destination: Békéscsaba

It’s official! I will be spending this upcoming year in Békéscsaba, Hungary. Particularly, I will be hosted by the Békéscsabai Evangélikus Egyházközség (the Lutheran church in Békéscaba.)

As far as my specific placement goes, I will be living in an apartment on the grounds of a local high school and engaging in a variety of service ministries there. Some of these could include small group English language tutoring at the high school, assisting with the local art schools,  and assisting with the social hour and arts and crafts time at a drop in center for adults living with disabilities.

On Saturdays I will have the opportunity to travel to the nearby town of Békés to attend a Pentecostal worship that brings Roma and non-Roma young adults together. The Roma people face stereotypes and discrimination in Hungary and around the world. Watch the video below to learn a little more about the history of the Roma people.

 

Thanks to Lord of Life

Me at Lord of LifeI just wanted to say a special thank you to Lord of Life Lutheran Church in Kennewick, WA for hosting me today. I may not be a member of their congregation nor live in Kennewick. But they welcomed me with open arms. It was truly a pleasure visiting and worshiping with this wonderful congregation and having the opportunity to talk with so many wonderful people about my upcoming journey with Young Adults in Global Mission. I am blessed to have this congregation supporting and praying for me in the coming weeks and months and year.

Do you want to join Lord of Life in supporting me in the coming year? There are many different ways to do so:

  1. Pray for me. Your thoughts and prayers are greatly appreciated as I embark on this journey which, I am sure, will bring a variety of new challenges and new joys.
  2. Follow me. Be a part of my journey by following my journey, whether that is by reading my blog or talking to me in other ways.
  3. Write me. Feel free to send me an email (Contact) or write me a letter (contact me for the address). I would absolutely love to hear from you.
  4. Donate. A year of service isn’t free. In fact, it costs $15,000 to support one volunteer for a year. This includes training and periodic retreats, roundtrip travel to and from the country of service, full room and board, a small monthly living allowance, and basic international medical insurance. As part of accepting this call, I am asked to fundraise $5,000 towards this $15,000 dollars. Whether it is $1 or $100, every little bit you can contribute helps. Don’t know how much to give? Consider supporting me for a day (which averages to just under $50). If you give $50, you can pick a day of your choosing and give me your address, and I will be sure to send you a postcard on that day!

Ways to donate:

  1. Online at http://support.elca.org/goto/krista.
  2. By mail. Make checks out to the Evangelical Lutheran Church of America. To ensure proper processing, please also write my name and giving code in the memo line ofyour check – i.e. “Krista Stanley – GCS3339.” Mail checks to:

Evangelical Lutheran Church in America
PO Box 1809
Merrifield, VA 22116-8009

All donations are tax deductible. Gift acknowledgement and tax receipt will be sent to you upon receiving the donation.

Making YAGM my reality

Where did my YAGM journey begin? The thing about spending so long attending and then working at a Lutheran summer camp is that by the time I became old enough to consider doing a YAGM year, it was not a new concept to me. Former counselors and camp staff both from when I was a camper and when I was on staff have spent YAGM years walking alongside communities around the world. But there is a difference between knowing that YAGM exists and committing to spending a year volunteering in a place halfway around the world.

It was always something that I had in the back of my mind as something that would be cool to do, but I don’t think I ever really believed that I would actually do it. I always figured that my life and goals and ambitions would get in the way of spending a year with YAGM.

But then my senior year of college came around and a YAGM recruiter came to our Lutheran Campus Ministry dinner and he talked to us about the program and his YAGM year. He particularly caught my attention when he talked about some of his YAGM friends serving in Hungary. I studied abroad in Budapest, Hungary and fell in love with my small experience of the country and the people. The thought of a possibility of returning there and getting to know a new area in a new way sparked some excitement in me. And, for the first time I started asking myself whether YAGM might actually be something I do.

Then, winter break came around and, instead of spending my break sitting around at home, I chose to spend it volunteering in Nicaragua with the University of Idaho’s Alternative Service Break program. We spent our time installing solar panels, laying water lines and building latrines in the rural communities of Malacatoya and el Jacote. It reminded me first of how much I enjoy volunteering and how I needed to make volunteering a priority in my life again and second of how important it is to have a global perspective. I appreciated the chance I had to walk alongside both my team and the people of these communities and get to know them in little ways despite me not speaking Spanish and them not really speaking English. (It was also cool to see how much the language skills of those who spoke Spanish improved from the start of the trip to the end of the trip.)

After returning from my time in Nicaragua, I decided that amid school, work and applying to grad schools, I was going to go ahead and apply to YAGM. At first I applied as an alternative, if I didn’t get into grad school. But, as time went on, my desire to do YAGM strengthened. I really did want to do it, whether I ended up in Hungary or somewhere else. But, more than anything it was a waiting game. My ideal situation was getting into grad school and then getting said grad school to defer my admission for a year so I could do YAGM.

I was excited when I received an offer to attend the DIP (discernment, interview and placement) event, interviewing for placements in Central Europe (Hungary) and the United Kingdom. Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to attend the event in Chicago, but I was able to attend information sessions and interviews over Skype. At the end of it all, I was offered a placement in Central Europe (Hungary).

I had a week to make my decision. And, I did not have my life together nor did I have any clue what that decision would be. I had been accepted into one of my grad schools, but had not heard back from them as to whether or not they would defer my admission. The other grad school, I had not heard from at all. I really wanted to go to Hungary and do YAGM, but I was not sure I could give up this opportunity to go to grad school, especially since there are only two grad schools in the country with my program and they are both pretty competitive to get into.

It wasn’t an easy decision, especially with not having all the facts. I really just wanted to figure out everything with both grad schools before making my decision. That, however, wasn’t going to happen. Even so, I still asked for an extra day to make my decision and attempt to reach out to grad schools. And that extra day made the difference for me. Florida International University responded to me. They would defer my admission for a year. Even though there was still a lot of unknown and I still hadn’t heard from the other school, I knew that it was possible for me to do both YAGM and grad school. And thus, I was able to make my decision to accept my YAGM placement.

To be honest, I am both excited for and absolutely terrified of what this year will bring. But through the good and the bad I will grow in unexpected ways and I am confident that this upcoming year in Hungary is the right choice for me.

Support me on my journey in Central Europe

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It is with great excitement that I have accepted the opportunity to serve as a Young Adult in Global Mission volunteer in Central Europe (Hungary) starting in August. I will be one of more than 95 young adults serving on behalf of the ELCA in 11 different country programs around the world! Volunteers serve in schools, NGOs and social service ministries. Particularly, a portion of my placement will be working with the Roma population in Hungary.

As part of accepting this call, I am asked to raise at least $5,000 toward the cost of supporting me this year. Ultimately it costs $15,000 to support each volunteer for a year. That averages out to just under $50 a day. Would you be willing to support me for a day? You choose the day and I will make sure to send you a postcard on that day! If you can’t afford the $50 for a day, any little bit still helps.

Please help me reach my goal by supporting my fundraising efforts with a donation today. All donations are tax deductible. Through your donation, you join me on this journey as I grow in my own faith and walk in partnership with our global companions. I am thrilled to think about the ways in which this year will form and transform me.

Donate now at http://support.elca.org/goto/krista.

Thank you for joining me and for your support – every gift truly matters!

About Young Adults in Global Mission

The ELCA’s Young Adults in Global Mission program provides young adults, ages 21-29, the opportunity to grow in their faith and work in partnership with our global companions. Young adults in the program serve in churches, schools and social service ministries. Currently the program is engaged in work in Argentina/Uruguay, Australia, Cambodia, Central Europe, Jerusalem/West Bank, Madagascar, Mexico, Rwanda, Senegal, Southern Africa and the United Kingdom.

The total cost for one young adult in the program is $15,000. Each young adult is tasked with raising a minimum of $5,000 to help support their year of service. The ELCA commits to raising the additional $10,000 per volunteer through generous congregations and donors. If more than $5,000 in gifts is received, the additional funds will help to support other young adult volunteers and ensure that there is a sustainable source of revenue for future the Young Adults in Global Mission program. All donations are tax deductible.